Not that Marion Anderson. This Mrs. Anderson was the principal of my elementary school from Grade One to Grade Six. She was (probably still is) a great artist and encourager of children's talent. She, along with the school librarian, team taught Grade Six as well. Do I have powerful memories of Mrs. Anderson? Not really. She was strict, but fair, as most teachers were. She had a dark office with a large walnut desk and a leather strap on the wall. She used it, but never on me. Her husband Don was a farmer and drove a school bus, but not the one I rode.
At the end of July, this newspaper clipping showed up in my mail, with a little note from my mother. "Mrs. Anderson is 90. She still looks the same, doesn't she? It would be nice if you sent her a card." For a few weeks the note and picture sat on my kitchen counter, a tiny little mom with her hands on her hips, toe tapping. Occasionally she'd bring it up when we talked on the phone.
I don't know what my problem was, except maybe I resist being told what to do. Eventually, I got over myself and did the nice thing. I dug a notecard out of the drawerful I have, and sent Mrs. Anderson a short note - a reminiscence of grade school and best wishes on the occasion of her momentous birthday written inside a card featuring the art of our elementary school students. I thought she'd get a kick out of that. I guess she did, she called mom a week or so later to express her delight that a former student had made the effort to send a card.
3 comments:
That was very nice of you. If we all took a few minutes out of our day and sent a card to someone in our past or present (or even future), just to say "hi, I'm thinking of you" I believe the world would be a much better place. You get extra quilting points for that.. Have a great day, and yes, Hi! I'm thinking about you.
That woman is 90? She looks amazing.
Agreeing w/Greg here...I wish letter and note writing wasn't so much of a lost art (thumps cane). I love getting handwritten notes. I got one yesterday as a thanks for a baby quilt and it TOTALLY made my day.
What does "Best wishes only, please" mean? As if someone would send bad wishes? Strange that they added that.
Bless you.
I often wonder about the lot of teachers, pouring out energy and attention and never really seeing the end result. It must be nice when they occasionally hear from a former student.
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